Most of us have a natural default. Here's why it matters and what it could tell you about the way you work. A few years ago (a few more than I am willing to admit) I was offered a place at a university in Australia to train as a teacher. I knew I wanted to help people. I knew I wanted to work with others in a meaningful way. But something didn't quite connect. I deferred for a year, kept exploring, deferred again and eventually came across coaching, which I had already been d